Toronto, ON – Canada-based online startup Tokii releases its mobile application for iOS devices today (the Android application will be available soon), revolutionizing the self-help space by bringing it from the popular Tokii.com web 2.0 platform into the rapidly expanding mobile sector. The relationship management site announced that the first phase of the app would bring two of Tokii’s most exciting and popular tools to mobile devices, MoodMeter and DiscoveryGames.

MoodMeter allows a person to let their partner
know how they are feeling and vice versa. By
doing this, both partners are made aware of each other’s moods and can adjust accordingly, whether it’s by taking advantage of a positive mood or preparing for a negative mood. There are currently over 120 unique
moods to choose from.

The second tool to be integrated into the mobile app is Tokii’s most popular feature, DiscoveryGames. These games are quick quizzes that test a person’s knowledge of their partner and they help to initiate a dialog between partners as new aspects and viewpoints are uncovered. DiscoveryGames boast a continually increasing library of over 250 games that cover a wide variety of interesting topics, ranging from love and sex to sports and politics.

“We are very excited to bring Tokii into the mobile space and to be innovating the self-help space,” states Tokii co-founder and CEO, Karla Stephens-Tolstoy. “With Tokii, we were able to bring self-help from the stone age of reading materials to an interactive social web 2.0 platform. And now with Tokii Mobile, we’re giving couples a way to work on their relationship at any time from anywhere.”

Download the Tokii iOS App here.

Contact us at CEO@tokii.com

It’s been a big week for Sheryl Sandberg, Facebook’s chief operating officer, often credited for increasing the social network’s revenue and growing their user base exponentially in the years since CEO Mark Zuckerberg whisked her away from Google.

Ms. Sandberg appears to have it all: an impressive title, a work history that includes being chief of staff to the U.S. Treasury Secretary under President Bill Clinton, TED Talk videos that generate over a million views, and a celebrity status that has seen her share a podium with mainstream celebrities such as Oprah Winfrey as well as the world’s most influential businessmen at the Davos World Economic Forum. Now, the outspoken 42-year-old joins the ranks of some of wealthiest self-made women as Facebook began trading publicly on Friday on the Nasdaq.

My business crush on Ms. Sandberg began after her commencement speech at Barnard College in 2011 where she lamented that women of our generation never solved the equality issue, inspiring graduates to be fearlessly ambitious. Yet, if we plan on continuing to claim Ms. Sandberg as our version of the ideal woman, it’s important to explore why her and why now.

For one, Ms. Sandberg fills a void since few women reach her career heights and, of those who do, even fewer draw attention to the lack of female representation at the top levels of business and government.

“When I started coaching women [9-years ago], no one wanted to hear that the playing field might not yet be level for women in the workplace,” recalled Dr. Ann Daly, an Austin, Tex.-based author and career coach devoted to the advancement of women.

Before the Sheryl Sandberg generation, observed Dr. Daly, most successful business leaders took the Carly Fiorina approach, the former CEO of Hewlett-Packard Co. who once declared that there is no glass ceiling. At that time, it was too risky to be self-identified as a woman with struggles because that carried the baggage of a victim or whiner, explained Dr. Daly.

Dr. Daly believes the time is right for our culture to digest this message and Ms. Sandberg is perfectly placed to be its spokeswoman, given her role at one of the “greatest success stories in corporate America.”

“Today, it is no longer taboo to talk about it. Despite the fact that women are now better educated and more ambitious, the workplace is still structured to favour men,” Dr. Daly said.

This candid insight into the work force wins Ms. Sandberg many admirers, including Lally Rementilla, a self-proclaimed “Sheryl” junkie. She once sent Facebook’s No. 2 a handwritten note detailing her admiration and quickly received a response. Ms. Rementilla even credits her role as vice-president of finance at Nulogy Corp., a software company in Toronto, as her “Sheryl Sandberg moment,” since she entered the company as a more experienced member of the management team, as well as the oldest.

“Sheryl stands out because we are seeing her through her journey, in her own terms,” mused Ms. Rementilla, who feels that other top female executives simply focus on their accomplishments rather than their struggles. “We see a Sheryl who is not afraid to talk about ‘taboo women topics’ such as ambition, crying in front of your boss, leaving at 5:30 p.m. and having the right marriage partner,” she observed.

Not everyone believes the Sandberg phenomenon is flawless, with some suggesting that her superstardom carries risks for women in the business world and in their personal lives.

Winnipeg-born Karla Stephens-Tolstoy, a former CEO of Vodafone in the Czech Republic, wonders if the media’s perception of Ms. Sandberg sets unreasonable expectations for women.

“How does she manage to leave work at 5:30 every day?” asked Ms. Tolstoy, who now runs Tokii.com, a relationship site in Toronto. “Does it mean that those of us who can’t manage to do that aren’t as competent at managing our time?” she added. Since Ms. Stephens-Tolstoy’s business focuses on strengthening relationships, she worries that the impression that Ms. Sandberg is a “wonder woman” may lead others to entertain unattainable objectives about “having it all.” She also wonders how true-to-life Ms. Sandberg’s perfect balancing act is behind the cameras.

Regardless of where you stand on the Sheryl Sandberg fan meter, she wields tremendous influence for many women. Given the scarcity of other female role models, my fingers are crossed that she never stumbles.

For more information and to play DiscoveryGames, please visit: Tokii.com

For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com

Isn’t it funny how you have time to stand in line for coffee, watch your favorite TV show, and surf the web, but finding time for meaningful conversation with your partner can take a back seat? Maybe you’ve been so busy you didn’t even notice it happen. With work, kids, and just life in general, sadly sometimes we forget to connect in our relationships. But we can do something about re-discovering the qualities, hopes, and growth of the person you’ve gone through so much with!

Tokii gets technology working for your relationships instead of against it and lets couples use their smart phones and tablets to make their lives together better! With Tokii Mobile, you can turn any downtime into a chance to connect with your partner. Play games together throughout the day or send little love notes to each other with tools like:

The MoodMeter that lets you share exactly how you’re feeling so you can both get savvy to each other’s state of mind.

DiscoveryGames that add a little spark to your relationship; share your opinions and find out things you never knew about your partner.

Tokii understands that a relationship is like any machine. It requires ongoing maintenance to make sure performance is at peak level. Tokii can “tune up” your relationship so you can “tune in” to each other’s needs and get the spark back!

Join Tokii! What have you got to lose? It’s free, it’s fun, and it only takes a few minutes to get started. You even have a chance to win an iPad!Get on the same page with your partner today!

For more information and to play DiscoveryGames, please visit: Tokii.com

For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com

We always have time to stand in line for coffee, watch our favorite TV show, and surf the web, but finding time to talk with our partner can get dismissed. Maybe you’ve been so busy you didn’t even notice it happen. With work, kids, and life’s craziness pulling us in all directions, sadly sometimes we forget to connect in our relationships. But you can do something about re-discovering the amazing person you’ve gone through so much with.

Tokii gets technology working for your relationships instead of against it (like texting at dinner), and lets couples use their smart phones and tablets to make their lives together better! With Tokii Mobile, you can turn any downtime into a chance to connect with your partner. Play games together throughout the day or send little love notes to each other with tools like:

The MoodMeter that lets you share exactly how you’re feeling so you can both understand what’s going on inside your heads.

DiscoveryGames that add a little spark to your relationship; share your opinions and find out things you never knew about your partner.

Tokii understands that a relationship is like any machine. It requires ongoing maintenance to make sure performance is at peak level. Tokii can “tune up” your relationship so you can “tune in” to each other’s needs and get the spark back!

Join Tokii! What have you got to lose? It’s free, it’s fun, and it only takes a few minutes to get started. You even have a chance to win an iPad! Get on the same page with your partner today!

For more information and to play DiscoveryGames, please visit:Tokii.com

For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com

Toronto, ON / May 15, 2012-Isn’t it funny how you have time to stand in line for coffee, watch your favorite TV show, and surf the web, but finding time for meaningful conversation with your partner can take a back seat? Maybe you’ve been so busy you didn’t even notice it happen. With work, kids, and just life in general, sadly sometimes we forget to connect in our relationships. But we can do something about re-discovering the qualities, hopes, and growth of the person you’ve gone through so much with!

Tokii gets technology working for your relationships instead of against it and lets couples use their smart phones and tablets to make their lives together better! With Tokii Mobile, you can turn any downtime into a chance to connect with your partner. Play games together throughout the day or send little love notes to each other with tools like:

The MoodMeter that lets you share exactly how you’re feeling so you can both get savvy to each other’s state of mind.

DiscoveryGames that add a little spark to your relationship; share your opinions and find out things you never knew about your partner.

Join Tokii! What have you got to lose? It’s free, it’s fun, and it only takes a few minutes to get started. You even have a chance to win an iPad! Get on the same page with your partner today!

For more information and to play DiscoveryGames, please visit:Tokii.com

For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com 

Toronto, ON / March 22, 2012 –Joseph Kony is a wanted man and now the hunt is on to capture him so that justice is served for his horrific crimes since forming the Lord’s Resistance Army (LRA) over 20 year ago in Uganda.

Tokii.com, one of the world’s most relied upon relationship management website platforms for couples, just launched its Kony2012 DiscoveryGame in order to gain feedback, get people talking about the issues, and boost awareness on Kony. Each week Tokii.com offers a number of new DiscoveryGames relating to an array of topics like current events, politics, travel, holidays, love, romance, and sex.

Kony is now in the public eye big time since the world has learned of how he and his LRA regime kidnapped over 30, 000 children so they could work in its rebel group. Under Kony’s ruse, he made young boys and men soldiers, and sadly, young girls and women into “wives” and sex slaves since forming the LRA in 1986, according to the Associated Press.

“The social media world has exploded with so much response this week following the launch of a documentary titled Kony 2012,” says Karla Stephens-Tolstoy, founder and CEO of Tokii.com. “The 30 minute documentary is now posted on YouTube and Vimeo, and as March 20, 2012, the film was viewed over 80 million times. This demonstrates the power of social media and how people want to talk about the issues at hand.”

The documentary, which was directed and produced by Jason Russell for the campaign group Invisible Children Inc, was made in an effort to increase US involvement in capturing a the man who founded the LPA.

“Tokii.com and its Kony 2012 DiscoveryGame is yet another effective tool in promoting awareness of Kony. Simply put, Tokii.com and its members want to make a difference and feel the need to participate in our DiscoveryGame,” says Tolstoy.

Tolstoy points to some thought-provoking results from members who participated in the Kony 2012 DiscoveryGame. “Interestingly, the majority of men feel that he will be killed rather than being captured, while the majority of women suggest he will be caught this year.”

She adds, “A point to highlight from our data is that while both men and women feel the use of social media is effective in creating awareness on the issue involving Kony, our members strongly feel that the negative media attention in the end will not make a difference in the end.”

Of course while the Kony 2012 documentary has generated chatter, so has Russell himself, the film’s director who was involved in a scandal only days ago. Despite this however, men and women with Tokii.com don’t feel it does not alter the problem.

Click on the following link to play game: Kony 2012 Tokii.com DiscoveryGame

The data collected form the Kony 2012 DiscoveryGame on Tokii.com is valuable as it serves as a snapshot of the viewpoints from global citizens.

Joseph Kony has been able to continue his brutality for over 20 years; Do I think the international community will be able to catch him in 2012?

27% of men, 59% of women: Yes, this is the year

9% of men, 29% of women: No, he’ll continue to elude them

64% of men, 12 % of women: He’ll like be killed, not caught

With this latest negative media attention, do I think the KONY 2012 Campaign will be able to actually make a difference?

12% of men, 12% of women: Heck yes!

12% of men, 12% of women: Impossible to say

75% of men, 75% of women: No

How do I feel about the KONY 2012 campaign after the scandal involving co-founder Jason Russell?

33% of men, 33% of women: Doesn’t change the issue

17% of men, 28% of women: Less optimistic

25% of men, 28% of women: Cynical

25% of men, 11% of women: Totally ruined the momentum

Why do I think the organizers want to make Joseph Kony “famous” for his crimes?

50% of men, 59% of women: To spread awareness

42% of men, 29% of women: To get the attention of the US Government

8% of men, 12% of women: Easier to unite against a known villain

What do I think is most effective about the KONY 2012 campaign?

17% of men, 39% of women: It appeals to youth

33% of men, 22% of women: Its use of Facebook

25% of men, 22% of women: That is expires on December 31, 2012

25% of men, 17% of women: It’s a twist on fame/celebrity

Do I agree with the organizer targeting the youth to generate support?

50% of men, 37% of women: Yes, youth can influence adults

25% of men, 26% of women: No, youth are easily swayed

25% of men, 37% of women: If it works, who cares

The organizers of Invisible Children have been criticized for spending large amounts of donations on travel and production costs. Do I think the expenses are justified?

42% of men, 33% of women: Absolutely! It’s about awareness, not aid

25% of men, 39% of women: No, the money was misspent

33% of men, 28% of women: Not sure, don’t know enough  yet

Do I think the larger issue of the use of child soldiers is getting lost in all the focus on Kony himself in the media?

42% of men, 44% of women: Yes, it’s not discussed enough

42% of men, 22% of women: No, that is the focus

17% of men, 33% of women: Aren’t they one and the same?

What do I think of the KONY 2012 campaign’s use of Social Media to spread the word and get people aware of Joseph Kony?

67% of men, 71% of women: It’s relevant and effective

8% of men, 6% of women: It’s purely opportunistic

17% of men, 12% of women: Hey, it’s free advertising

8% of men, 12% of women: Did not like it

If the KONY 2012 campaign works, do I think it will set a new precedence for going after other international criminals?

45% of men, 59% of women: It will definitely influence other cases

45% of men, 24% of women: It may help with catching other warlords

9% of men, 18% of women: It won’t make a difference long-term

How would I say I feel about the KONY 2012 campaign as a whole?

20% of men, 29% of women: Totally supportive

20% of men, 29% of women: Mostly supportive

30% of men, 29% of women: Somewhat critical

30% of men, 12% of women: Cynical

What type of action am I most likely to take for KONY 2012?

11% of men, 12% of women: Get the kit, hit the streets

0% of men, 12 of women: Share on Facebook

67% of men, 65% of women: Follow the news

22% of men, 12% of women: Don’t care

For more information and to play DiscoveryGames, please visit:Tokii.com

For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com 

Toronto, Ontario/March 20, 2012 - One of the world’s most popular relationship management platform websites for couples announced today that they are pushing the envelope in a big way in order for couples to learn more about love, relationships, and yes, you got it – sex.

Tokii.com just expanded its ecosystem of relationship support and resources with the launch of TokiiTales. Through a unique mix of real life stories and fiction about relationship experiences, the site content is hot and steamy, but it also creates learning opportunities in thought-provoking ways.

According to Alison Sigmon, therapist and author, storytelling is a cornerstone of cultures around the globe and essential to personal and relationship growth, influence, and evolution. She continues with saying, “It is the most effective method when sharing wisdom, gaining insight, changing behavior, and inspiring others to try something new or different. When we see others have experienced what we’re experiencing, we feel more confident and inspired to act in thoughtful ways.”

TokiiTales is a platform for members to contribute their stories, and at the same time get analysis, advice, and tips from subject matter experts that readers can learn from and use for themselves and their relationships. It promotes exchanging ideas, sharing perspective, and peeking into others’ experiences through story-specific comment streams. Sigmon added, “Just like reading a parable, watching a film, or listening to a great storyteller, TokiiTales offers a stage and an audience for anyone seeking information and support about relevant, current subjects in entertaining and even provocative formats.”

No holds barred – the site does contain material that is sexually explicit in nature and adult discretion is advised – TokiiTales.com offers an array of categories for online readers which include “What Turns Me On?,” “Erotic,” “Relationship,” “Life Challenges,” “Humour,” and “Mystery.”

Here are two links for men and women to learn more about TokiiTales:

For Men

For Women

Karla Stephens-Tolstoy, Founder and CEO of Tokii.com, indicates that the launch of TokiiTales is another avenue to provide experience and knowledge through methods tailored to the needs and style of the individual.

“Our website is growing strong simply for the reason that people out there want credible advice on love, relationships, sex, and even dating,” she says. “We are now becoming a household name in Canada, the USA and beyond as more and more couples turn to us so each day so that they can better discover new aspects of their relationships when dealing with their partners.”

Tolstoy adds, “The launch of TokiiTales will be a hit for new and current members. Let’s face it, the world is a changing place and people in relationships who have careers and living fast-paced lives need a site like ours for advice, guidance, and support. We want everyone to share their stories, post comments and engage in dialogue on topics that focus on love, sex, and relationships and so much more.”

Tokii.com is a free online relationship management platform that helps busy couples stay connected. The site is interactive allowing couples to participate in an abundance of DiscoveryGames, and the site provides couples with advice columns, blogs and stories on love, sex and relationships. Tokii.com will “tune up” any relationship so couples can “tune in” to each other’s needs and get the spark back they need.

For more information, visit  TokiiTales

For the main site, please visit: Tokii.com

For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com

Tokiilab.com helps couples ‘Tune Up’ & ‘Turn On’

Toronto, Ontario/March 13, 2012 - Let’s face it, we live in a busy world where work and our career life occupies most of our time. So, how does this all play out when you are in a relationship? Well, it can be tough for many couples living a hectic lifestyle, there’s no doubt about it. It seems that there are not enough hours in a day where couples can really take the time they need in order to find ways to understand each other.

But don’t despair, there’s good news – really good news that is, and it’s only a point and click away with the mouse.

Tokii.com, one of the world’s most relied upon relationship management website platforms, provides products that facilitate couples through gamification experiences that help them discover, reveal, and share their needs, desires, and interests.

Now Tokii.com offers even more resources with the launch of TokiiLab. Alison Sigmon, therapist and author, says about Tokii Lab, “Tokii Lab takes the topics, opportunities, and possible points of conflict uncovered from using Tokii products, and extends the conversation with tips, support, advice, and insights for how they can meet their respective needs, desires, and goals on and offline.”

Already known for supportive, original content in Tokii.com, TokiiLab gives even more in depth, practical content experiences from trusted subject matter experts in a variety of areas. Sigmon continues with saying, “Tokii.com and TokiiLab address age-old problems and concerns in current time-saving ways. People in or out of a relationship can try, share, learn, explore, and get great ideas through a variety of media formats.”

TokiiLab allows couples to submit questions and obtain advice and feedback from popular relationships experts. The site also has plenty of information for couples seeking insights on communication, love, friends and family, health, home life, holidays, lifestyle, current events, sex, info graphs, and quotes and humour.

What makes the site even more unique is that it follows the pulse of couples and how they interact with one another. Content is then created based on user data. So, for example, if couples are playing a lot of the finance DiscoveryGames, then TokiiLab will quickly know that this is an area of interest and will provide more content with advice columns, stories and blogs for its members.

Here are some examples of online posts that prove valuable for couples:

Love is the Stanley Cup

Sex Toys Done Right Are a Complement to Your Sex Life!

It’s Complicated

Love in a Digital World

Info-Graphs

Ask Tokii

Tokii.com is a free online relationship management platform that helps busy couples stay connected. The site is interactive allowing couples to participate in an abundance of DiscoveryGames, and the site provides couples with advice columns, blogs and stories on love, sex and relationships. Tokii.com will “tune up” any relationship so couples can “tune in” to each other’s needs and get the spark back they need.

For more information, visit TokiiLab

For the main site, please visit: Tokii.com

For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com

Toronto, ON/ March 6, 2012 –  Fans of Tokii.com had the chance to weigh in on the meaning of St. Patrick’s Day.

Tokii.com recently unveiled its Planning for St. Patrick’s Day DiscoveryGame on its site and couples took part in the interactive game which generated some interesting results. The biggest finding from the world’s most relied upon relationship management platform website for couples revealed that most men feel that St. Patrick’s Day should be a day off from work. As well, both men and women support the Shamrock fanfare as the definitive occasion to recognize St. Patrick and Irish culture.

Here is a breakdown of the highlights from the data collected from members of Tokii.com who took part in the Planning for St. Patrick’s Day DiscoveryGame.

Facts About St. Patrick’s Day:

29% of men, 28% of women say “Yes” to recognize local Irish.

47% of men, 33% of women would enjoy a day off.

41% of men, 17% of women are well versed on singing both the clean and dirty version of Irish Folk Songs

41% of men, 56% of women don’t know much about St. Patrick but toast in his honor

Top Cities to Celebrate:

41% of men, 11 % of women: Boston

24% of men, 50% of women: New York

Men versus Women on the History of St. Patrick:

54% of men, 39% of women knew that St. Patrick was canonized by the Catholic Church for banishing snakes from Ireland

When St. Patrick’s Day falls on a Friday, the local Bishop can grant a dispensation of the diocese from abstinence:

38% of men, 28% of women would take advantage of the day off from lent

More Neat Facts:

Under 20% of men and women knew that St. Patrick used the shamrock to explain the Holy Trinity to the pagan Irish and therefore associating green with St. Patrick’s Day

62% of men, 44% of women agree that “Everybody’s Irish on St. Patrick’s Day.

Presently, couples now have the chance to play a new online DiscoveryGame, The History of St. Patrick:

Karla Stephens-Tolstoy, Founder and CEO of Tokii.com, knew that the Planning for St. Patrick’s DiscoveryGame would generate a lot of interest from members.

“St. Patrick’s Day is a big event and so many couples enjoy celebrating the occasion with green beer and cheers,” laughs Tolstoy.

She adds, “It’s interesting to know that there is a movement among our membership which proves that men want the day off to soak up some Irish fun. As well, in all, our members revealed that St. Patrick’s Day is the official day of the year to acknowledge the Irish.”

Tolstoy indicates that the DiscoveryGames offered on Tokii.com is a unique way to measure how couples feel and interpret special occasions and topics of interest. Tokii.com has been providing a variety of DiscoveryGames since launching its website only a year ago.

“As our membership grows, we are seeing more and more couples participating in our online DiscoveryGames,” she says. “It’s fascinating to learn what people are thinking and the results we share with our members, the general public, and the mass media serves as a unique educational tool on many levels.”

Tokii.com is a ‘made in Canada’ initiative and now thousands of couples rely on the site as a beneficial tool in learning more about relationships and love.

For more information, visit Tokii.com
For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com

Toronto, ON – Based out of Oakville, ON, Tokii.com is a ‘made in Canada’ initiative, and thousands of couples now rely on the site as a beneficial tool for learning more about their partners, their relationships, and love in general. As the world’s most relied-upon relationship website for couples, they recently launched their newest Valentine’s Day DiscoveryGames to measure the expectations and desires men and women have for this coming February 14th. The Data collected from the Tokii community has generated some interesting feedback.

- Some of the highlights from our members and comments from experts:

29% of men, 11% of women feel it is important to make love on Valentine’s Day

Sex in a relationship is important, period. Studies show that sex is a predictor of a happy relationship.  [It] can be a miracle worker. Good sex induces the release of oxytocin and dopamine [and] fosters trust; a feeling of closeness long after the act itself is over.

(Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel S.F. Heller, MA “Attached: The New Science of Attachment”)

25% of men, 19% of women absolutely believe Valentine’s Day is for females

Females are usually more concerned about the relating aspect of relationships.  They often pay attention to details and may feel unloved, unacknowledged and unappreciated if they don’t receive a Valentine’s Day gift.

(Dr. Erica Goodstone, twitter.com/BoomerHealthy)

45% of men, 19% of women think men should also be spoiled on Valentine’s Day

Let’s face it; Valentine’s Day is for women!  It’s advertised to men that they need to do something for their significant other, [but] there is nothing a man wants more than to be wanted!  What better way to show it than on Valentine’s Day!  It’s a great opportunity to shake things up in a relationship!

(David Simonsen MS, LMFT. Creative Solutions Counseling)

Tokii asked, the community responded:  

Would Your Partner Be Devastated if You Forgot Valentine’s Day?

37% Men say yes – 13% Women say yes

Fool Around in Bed All Day?

32% Men say yes – 9% Women say yes

Play Dress Up With a Sexy Costume?

19% Men say yes – 59% Women say yes

The Valentine’s Day DiscoveryGame also garnered other noteworthy answers in the area of what men and women want for the Holiday.

Here are some highlights:

Do Women Want Flowers?

45% Men say yes – 4% of Women say yes

Do Women Want Jewellery?

27% Men say yes – 36% of Women say yes

Do Men Want Sports Tickets?

20% of Men say yes – 29% of Women say yes

Do Men Want Sex?

50% Men say yes – 38% of Women say yes

Karla Stephens-Tolstoy, founder and CEO of Tokii.com, the brains behind Tokii’s Valentine’s Day campaign, knew it would gain lots of attention among devoted Tokii members.

“We wanted to really know what Valentine’s Day means for men and women, and we sure learned a lot. The results from our community have generated some striking differences between men and women: some aren’t all too surprising, women are interested in gifts and being pampered, men want the sex, but what’s great is that the context for these needs.  When you read between the lines a little you can see that what women really want is thoughtfulness, and what men are after is to feel needed.”

Those serving in the military also took part in the DiscoveryGametailored to their situation, which also produced some interesting findings.

Here are some highlights from Military Valentine’s Day: Far Away Romance:

We asked Our Couples in the Armed Service:

If They Feel Messages of Love Keep Loneliness Away

Men 56% – Women 54%

Where They Would Like to Be Whisked Off to For a Special Valentine’s Day?

Bedroom at Home: 22% Men – 10% Women

Special Memory Location: 22% Men – 50% Women

Exotic Location: 22% Men – 40% Women

Together With Family: 33% Men – 0% Women

What Loving Words They are using on Valentine’s Day

Women 60% likely to say, “forever,” while 44% of men likely to say, “counting the days.”

More Stats from the Tokii Community:

16% of Men, 52% of Women are envious of romantic gestures others receive

45% of Men, 19% of Women think men should also be spoiled on Valentine’s Day

63% of Men, 69% of Women think getting engaged or married on Valentine’s Day is a ‘cliché’

33% of Men, 59% of Women want to serenade their lover with a romantic song

57% of Men, 19% of Women want to set aside time for a “special massage”

48% of Men, 61% of Women find it hard to be creative with Valentine’s Day surprises

Do Women Want to be Wined and Dined on Valentine’s Day?

0% of men say yes, 20% of women say yes.

Do Men Want New Lingerie for Their Partner?

20% of men say yes, 21% of women say yes.

Do Women Want a Gift Involving Pampering on Valentine’s Day?

27% of men say yes, 40% of women say yes.

Do Men Want Something Practical on Valentine’s Day?

10% of men say yes, 12% of women say yes.

Tokii is the world’s first Relationship Management Platform – RMP—a unique and sophisticated Web and Mobile social platform specifically designed to enrich and strengthen relationships through interactive games, quizzes, trading favours and chores and, of course, flirting.

Attached are info graphics based on online Valentine’s Game results which approx. 1500 members of Tokii took part in.

Head to Tokii.com today and add your perspective to the Community Stats by playing the game for yourself, and for your partner.

*All community responses were pulled from the Valentine Dates, Valentine’s Day: Gift Giving, Valentine’s Expectations and Valentine’s Day:  Far Away Romance DiscoveryGames  

For more information, visit Tokii.com
For media interviews, please email us: ceo@tokii.com